We vaguely hear about it, the name makes us dream, but what exactly are multiple orgasms? Well to tell the truth, you don't need to be a great scientist to guess it, multiple orgasms are simply the fact of enjoying several times during the same sexual intercourse using sex toys for women. But then, myth or reality?
Multiple orgasms, really?
And yes, it does exist. But it's not that simple! Because if some people manage it naturally, this is not the case for all, and even less for penis owners who know the "refractory" phases, that is to say, the time of rest necessary for the penis before to be able to get erect again. Good news: the clitoris does not need to rest! On the other hand, he experiences a phase of post-orgasm hypersensitivity. After having panicked in all directions, the 8000 sensory sensors of its external part sometimes need a little while before being able to regain normal sensitivity and feel pleasure again.
Good, but watch out, I see you coming! Alone or with others, multi-orgasm should not become the number 1 objective of a relationship. We can never repeat it enough, the only objective to keep in mind is PLEASURE! But since I'm nice, I'm going to give you my little personal tips to help you in this quest for multiple orgasms. It left my Kiki !
How to have multiple orgasms?
1 – In the mood you will put yourself
This first bit of advice applies to all relationships, but particularly when you want to taste the delight of multiple orgasms. You are going to need to truly let go and indulge in pleasure. And letting go is not always easy. So to help each other, let's get in the mood! Sexy little outfit , soft lighting, music... indulge yourself and listen to your desires. Whether you are alone or with others, start by looking at each other, caressing each other, kissing each other. Take the time to raise the desire and the temperature little by little, the pleasure will only be better!
2 – Different techniques you will use
No need for penetration to reach orgasm! Invite your partner to play with his fingers, his tongue (both?) to stimulate you, insisting a little more than usual. Don't hold back your pleasure, let go. Do not seek to anticipate or control. If you reach orgasm at the start of intercourse, you could easily get a second one a little later. My little personal tip: start slowly with external stimulation of the clitoris, then add internal stimulation with fingers, a penis or a sex toy.
3 – Your time you will take
After a first orgasm, don't panic by trying to get a second one as soon as possible. Your erogenous zones are tired, give your body some time to breathe. Nobody is in a hurry, is it? Favor indirect caresses to bring down the tension of the body. For areas irritated by friction, do not hesitate to use suitable massage oils and moisturizing lubricants.
4 – Of your creativity, you will use.
Vary the pleasures! Change positions, use your fingers, your tongue, why not even a sex toy? This will allow you to stimulate different erogenous zones and therefore to get the full orgasmic potential of these zones. Your body offers you a multitude of access doors to pleasure: clitoris, G-spot, Deep Spot, nipples, anal, etc. The possibilities are limitless, and it would be a shame to deprive yourself of them!
Either way, it's really important not to pressure yourself. To experience these waves of pleasure, the best thing is always to listen to your body and be patient!
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